My Life My Rules

Have you ever felt that you live for everyone in this world but yourself, like everyone in your life has the right to make decisions for you but you.
No one really cares about you but have all the business in knowing whats going on in your life: setting rules and regulations, time limits and boundaries.

Do you ever feel Claustrophobic and want to just run away and live your life your way but you cant, because of the society, relatives, friends and even your family members.

If you feel the same then lemme just tell you, you are not the only one who is feeling this but there are many other women like you who cant live their life their way.

When you were a teenager your decisions were made by your parents, that's understood because teenage is the most complicated time of ones life and due to so many hormonal changes in your body, you tend to make wrong and stupid decisions.

When you become an adult you are exited to explore so many avenues of life and live your life by your rules but here comes the twist...

Girls may have the right to choose their career or even their life partner but is that enough? Is that all a girl needs? What about the other life decisions?

Who to meet, what to wear,what to eat and what not to, where to go, when to go and most importantly when to reach back home.

Today a girl can decide what she wants to study but which college to join, which city, where to live, with whom to live: is still decided by her family.

Today a girl can decide who she wants to marry but what about her life after marriage? (more about this in my other blog)

Why does this happen? Have you ever took out time to actually think about it?

Who is responsible for all this? 

Most of you will say its a male dominated society so its the Men who are responsible but the truth is that women itself is the cause or reason behind all this.

Have you ever heard "औरत औरत कि दुश्मन", its true. Women are the biggest enemies of other women.

(more about this in my other blog)

Its your life, only you should make your own decisions. They may be wrong or right but its your life, your rules, your way of living.

Always remember whenever you achieve something you will not be appreciated as much, as you will be criticized when you commit a mistake.

So why give a damn about anyone?

Why give others the right to criticize you?

Its your life, make your own rules, live by what you feel not what others say.

So that when you grow old, you have no regrets thinking about the things you could have done.

So make your own rules and live everyday of your life to the fullest.