The weaker sex

From hundreds of years women are called the weaker sex but have you ever wondered why? Women may be weaker than men physically but women in general feel both positive and negative emotions more strongly than men, which make them emotionally stronger. Then why are women the weaker sex and not men? Why aren't they treated equal?

Men alone can’t be blamed, who doesn't like to be called superior and better than the others? The biggest reason is that women have accepted that they are the weaker sex and they actually practice it and force the other women to believe that it’s a male dominated society and we (women) will have to accept it and live with the same.

Is it true? Is it a male dominated society, if so why is it?

As I mentioned in my previous blog औरत औरत की दुश्मन, Women don’t let other women live their lives their way.  Even if a girl wants to make her own life decisions she can’t because in every step of her life she will be judged… judged by her colleagues, her relatives and other women.

If a woman chooses to make her career first and then get married, she is being judged.

If a woman chooses to wear shorts or skirts, she is being judged.

If a woman smokes or drinks, she is being judged.

If a married man is friends with a woman then the woman is considered to be at fault.

If a married woman is friends with a man, even then she is considered to be at fault.

When will this end? Why can’t women support other women? Women should understand that in order to emerge as a stronger sex we will have to unite. Why are we treating women the way we were treated by others? This is actual life we are talking about, not some college ragging where the seniors bully their juniors only because they were tortured by their seniors.We are living in the 21st century, things have changed and so should the mind set of people. I agree women have to face challenges throughout their lives but if women help other women achieve their goals rather than constantly judging and bullying them we can grow. Women have the ability to achieve the unthinkable just stop judging us by the decisions we make or by the way we choose to live our life. We are stronger than we credited ourselves to be. So if we actually want to change the way we are treated we will have to be the Change.

My Life My Rules

Have you ever felt that you live for everyone in this world but yourself, like everyone in your life has the right to make decisions for you but you.
No one really cares about you but have all the business in knowing whats going on in your life: setting rules and regulations, time limits and boundaries.

Do you ever feel Claustrophobic and want to just run away and live your life your way but you cant, because of the society, relatives, friends and even your family members.

If you feel the same then lemme just tell you, you are not the only one who is feeling this but there are many other women like you who cant live their life their way.

When you were a teenager your decisions were made by your parents, that's understood because teenage is the most complicated time of ones life and due to so many hormonal changes in your body, you tend to make wrong and stupid decisions.

When you become an adult you are exited to explore so many avenues of life and live your life by your rules but here comes the twist...

Girls may have the right to choose their career or even their life partner but is that enough? Is that all a girl needs? What about the other life decisions?

Who to meet, what to wear,what to eat and what not to, where to go, when to go and most importantly when to reach back home.

Today a girl can decide what she wants to study but which college to join, which city, where to live, with whom to live: is still decided by her family.

Today a girl can decide who she wants to marry but what about her life after marriage? (more about this in my other blog)

Why does this happen? Have you ever took out time to actually think about it?

Who is responsible for all this? 

Most of you will say its a male dominated society so its the Men who are responsible but the truth is that women itself is the cause or reason behind all this.

Have you ever heard "औरत औरत कि दुश्मन", its true. Women are the biggest enemies of other women.

(more about this in my other blog)

Its your life, only you should make your own decisions. They may be wrong or right but its your life, your rules, your way of living.

Always remember whenever you achieve something you will not be appreciated as much, as you will be criticized when you commit a mistake.

So why give a damn about anyone?

Why give others the right to criticize you?

Its your life, make your own rules, live by what you feel not what others say.

So that when you grow old, you have no regrets thinking about the things you could have done.

So make your own rules and live everyday of your life to the fullest.